Happy new year!

Blogging challenge be damned.. sometimes you’ve got to take a night easy and enjoy! If there is any night to do it, this would be it!

Hope you are having a great night y’all! Stay safe, and make sure to take some time to reflect on the old and look forward to the new 🙂

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Top posts in 2013

WordPress just sent me roundup of my 2013 blog stats. These kind of stats are always fun to look at and I’d like to share a few of them here.

Overall, the blog got ~37K views in 2013 (I’m pretty sure this doesn’t include people reading via email). On one hand, I’m pretty happy about this. 37K is not a small number. I’m sure a far fewer number of people have read my academic publications. On the other hand, I know it isn’t very much. In the scale of the Internet, 37K isn’t that large of a number, even for a day — there are plenty of sites that get millions of views per day!

There is definitely room for growth. To be honest, I am still trying to figure out how much I care about blog growth. I like the idea of writing for the sake of writing, and because of this, I haven’t put much time into promoting the blog. But perhaps it would be interesting promote it more, if only for the sake of figuring out more about Internet traffic.

Also, I received a list of the most viewed blog posts. They are listed below in order:

  1. The unbundling of Craigslist and reddit
  2. The single founder dilemma
  3. What’s wrong with being average?
  4. The simple secret to creating new habits
  5. Surviving the startup rollercoaster

To some degree, I am not surprised. Occasionally, if I think a post will resonate with a community (say Hacker News or a subreddit), I will share. These posts were all posts that I shared/promoted in some shape or form, and it isn’t surprising that they are the most viewed posts.

As with most thing on the Internet, the traffic follows a power law: that is, the top post received about half of all of the blog’s page views.

If you have just come across this blog, these 5 posts may be good to start with. If you have other favorites, I would love to hear 🙂

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Critics and creators

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To me, being an entrepreneur means being a creator. Along the way, an entrepreneur is bound to come into contact with critics. Some critics are friendly and constructive. They may be stern or cutting in their criticisms, but they have your best interests in mind. Other critics aren’t as friendly. They will find reasons to call you and your work stupid, and criticize you when you fail.

No matter the type of critic, it is important for entrepreneurs not to be fazed. The world is made by the creators. Critics will always be there with their words, but the creators make the world to ’round.

I believe that Theodore Roosevelt said it best, so will just leave the rest of the post to his classic quote:

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again; because there is not effort without error and shortcomings; but who does actually strive to do the deed; who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotion, who spends himself in a worthy cause, who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.

– Theodore Roosevelt, “Man in the Arena”, April 23, 1910

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The fragility of life

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The older I get, the more I respect life.

Have you gotten sick? A little virus or bacterial infection can wreak havoc on our bodies. I happen to be sick today. I don’t know what it is, but it is probably just a little bit of stuff in my system that has caused a days worth of nausea, headaches, fever, and vomiting. Crazy.

Have you gotten drunk? Have you ever gotten high? We pass so much stuff through our systems on a daily basis, yet a little amount of alcohol or drugs (relative to our entire body), can change everything. It changes our mindset. It changes our reality and our actions.

Have you noticed your body aging? I used to be able to hit the basketball courts, and immediately begin sprinting and jumping all over the place. Now, I’ve put some mileage on my body. The muscles are still there, and I can still get on the court and move, but the little changes from the wear and tear are very noticeable. I require stretching. I can’t run as fast. I can’t jump as high. And I get hurt more.

Life is an awesome thing. We get this one opportunity to experience all that this world has to offer. However, I’m beginning to realize that this is but a brief opportunity. Our body is a complex system and it is amazing that it functions as well as it does for as long as it does. It only requires little changes here and there for life to be different.. perhaps even end.

Again, as I get older, the more I respect life. The only takeaway I know of is that we need to seize the opportunity, and make sure to get what we can out of the life that we have. It sounds pithy, but it really the most important thing to understand in life.

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Thinking big and small

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I came across this post today by Gabriel Weinberg on thinking big in startups, and it struck a chord with one of the biggest lessons I have learned in my startup career thus far.

As far as I can tell, it is critical for an entrepreneur to be able to think both big and small.

Thinking big gives you a clear understanding of how you intent to change the world. It gives you your mission, which drives you through the entire startup rollercoaster (which is damn tough!). Thinking big ensures that you are tackling a large market. The big vision is essentially what your startup could look like once it hits traction and scales out.

However, thinking big has a major problem. You begin a startup with nothing. Zero traction. Zero scale. No code. No users. No data. Nothing. You don’t magically take over the world overnight. You have to begin with a few small steps.

Here is where thinking small is critical.

You must take your big picture, and distill it down to that first step. The first step is your entry point into the large picture. It is best if this entry point (1) can be tested in a small amount of time, (2) requires relatively little resources, and (3) is something that a market needs right now. Some people may call this an minimum viable product (MVP), but I like to call it my entry point. If selected properly, the entry point should be simple, but powerful. It is enough to begin gaining traction, and sets you on your way towards your larger vision.

What order do you go in? Big first? Or small first?

From what I can tell, Amazon seems to have gone big first. I would bet that Jeff Bezos understood where he was going, and began with an online bookstore. On the contrary, Mark Zuckerberg seems to have gone small first. He built a small thing for his university that gained traction. Afterwards, he developed the large vision and mapped out the steps for accomplishing it.

It appears you can go either way, but at some point, you must be able to think both big and small.

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Relationships and social networks

I find the intersection of technology and human interaction fascinating. Specifically, I am interested in how technology can be used to mimic and augment existing human interactions. I’ve written a bit about Snapchat and how temporary social media is brilliant at mimicking real life experiences. Similarly, the telephone, Skype, and Facetime all use technology to mimic/enable real life conversations.

One area technology hasn’t mimicked well is the formation of human relationships.

What happens when we meet a stranger in real life? We look at them. We observe their dress and body language. We make some small talk to break the ice, and collection enough information to create a first impression. As time goes by, we dig deeper into the relationship, delving into our personal history, our values, our hopes and dreams. We share our lives. And in doing so, we build rapport and trust.

What is the online equivalent? There really isn’t any.

We connect on Facebook and instantly access a stranger’s timeline and photo albums. We look at a person’s Twitter or Pinterest and can instantly view all of their public interests and tweets. There is nothing realistic about this. We don’t gradually get to know someone. Instead, we instantly have access to someone’s information.

This instant access may be OK is some situations, but can be harmful in other situations such as in dating. In real life, after a first date, I only know a little about my date. However, if we connect on Facebook, I can see all of my dates photos, timeline shares, and ex-relationships. IMHO, it breaks the dating process, and doesn’t allow me to slowly learn about a date. That is why the last time I was single, I consciously did not connect with any of my dates on Facebook.

There has to be something better here. Is there some way to create an user experience where people gradually get to know one another? I don’t know exactly what it would look like, but would be glad to see something like this exist.

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Your problem isn’t new

We all live our own lives starting from scratch. As we go through the different stages of life, we invariably hit challenges. As a child, it may be arguing with your parents, figuring out how to ask that girl out, or dealing with the school bully. As we grow up, it may be choosing a career, learning to achieve our goals, finding a person to marry, handling rebel children, etc. The challenges are all different, but because we start without knowing anything, each challenge seems like the biggest challenge in the world.

What often comforts me is knowing that my problem most likely isn’t a new problem. There have been generations of people that have come before me, and many (if not all) have hit the exact same challenges. Furthermore, many of them have figured out how to overcome the challenges.

What does this mean? First, most of my challenges are solvable. Second, there is much to learn from the people who have hit the challenge before I have.

People pass on lessons in various ways. They tell stories or pass on folk lore. They write books or articles on their experiences. Today, we have an even better option: publish to the Internet. Once a story is published, it is out there for all future generations, and can be immediately retrieved via a URL. This is extremely powerful, and one of the big reasons that I care so much about retrieving old content on the web. It isn’t simply accessing old content; it means helping people tap into the collective knowledge of the world when solving their life problems.

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Motivation for 2014

The end of the year is always a great time for contemplation. We reflect on the past year, think about our lives, and then put together a set of goals and priorities for the next year.

As this year comes to a close, I’d like to share a motivational video that I greatly enjoyed today. My favorite quote is:

The wealthiest place on the planet is the graveyard because in the graveyard we will find inventions that we never ever exposed to; ideas, dreams that never became reality; hopes and aspirations that we were never acted upon.

The video is below. I hope you enjoy it, and look forward to an awesome 2014.

Merry Christmas!

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Decoupling dissatisfaction from self worth

I came across this great quote from Alan Kay’s today, from ‘The Early History of Smalltalk‘, that strongly resonated with me:

A twentieth century problem is that technology has become too “easy”. When it was hard to do anything whether good or bad, enough time was taken so that the result was usually good. Now we can make things almost trivially, especially in software, but most of the designs are trivial as well. This is inverse vandalism: the making of things because you can. Couple this to even less sophisticated buyers and you have generated an exploitation marketplace similar to that set up for teenagers. A counter to this is to generate enormous disatisfaction with one’s designs using the entire history of human art as a standard and goal. Then the trick is to decouple the disatisfaction from self worth–otherwise it is either too depressing or one stops too soon with trivial results.

The crazy thing is that Alan Kay wrote this in 1993. Fast forward 20 years to today, and this quote has never been more true. It has never been easier to build software, yet it is difficult to make something of real value. The trick still seems to have the ability to decouple one’s dissatisfaction of their current work with their self worth. And then, of course, to keep working and honing one’s craft.

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Shit, why not?

I have now officially jumped into the Pacific Ocean naked. I don’t have a bucket list in life, but if I did, that would definitely be on it.

After leaving the bar tonight, some friends and I decided to close out the night with a walk to the beach. We are staying in a vacation home just a minute walk from the beach. At night, the walk is quiet and peaceful. There is no better way to end a night.. except perhaps with a beautiful sunrise.

Towards the end of our time on the beach, a friend turns to me and says, “Hey Alex, what do you think about jumping in naked?”

I immediately shoot back: “Shit, why not? Lets do this.” And then I start taking off my clothes as a sign of commitment.

One other friend commits to it, and in a few minutes we are down to our boxers.

3… 2… 1.. go! I drop our boxers and run for the waves. My feet slosh through the wet sand as I run towards a small wave coming up. I take a few steps into the water, collect myself, and then jump into the wave.

Splash!! I land jump past the wave, and hit the water, immediately getting getting my whole body wet. Luckily, the water is warm.

I look around and my two friends are in the water also. We share some laughs and then enjoy the moment. It feels so good to be in the water. We let a few waves drag us back and forth, stand up, and take it all in. The shoreline, waves, palm trees, and night sky.. they are all perfect.

A picture would be perfect for commemorating the moment. Except for the fact that we are naked, and a picture would be a horrible idea. We high five, and then walk back to our clothes.

“Shit, why not?”

Almost every time I find myself saying this, something awesome happens.

It always begins the same way. I hear a thought or challenge that sounds a bit absurd. At first, it feels slightly wrong, or even scary. And then I realize that there are almost no negative consequences. Furthermore, it passes my 80-year deathbed test. That is, I know that when I am on my deathbed, I will be glad that I did it.

When these circumstances pop up, there is only one answer.

That is why I found myself naked in the warm waters of Hawaii tonight. It is also why I quit my job to give the startup thing a try. There are no real downsides, and when I am on my deathbed, I will be glad I did it. So, “shit, why not?”

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